Sure, you’re angry. But how angry? In other words, it is more appropriate to pull out the verbal equivalent of a) a peashooter, b) a Supersoaker or c) a bottle of bubbles with a free bubble-blowing wand inside. Hmm. First, consider the source of your anger.
The tangled web you’re in right now is way too complicated to pull apart, so give it time to unravel itself. Instead of fighting a losing battle, put your energies somewhere they will be more appreciated. Time is very often the key to untangling a complicated problem.